Category: Getting Ready

  • Waves of Leaving

    We have begun this leg of our adventure in waves – waves of organization, waves of leaving, waves of good-byes, and alternating waves of excitement and melancholy.

    IMG_1728After more than a solid six months of planning and preparation, Colburn, the kids, and Fig all left Reno in late July to drive east and see his family.  Our truck, now nicknamed Olaf,  has everything we will use over the next year – a four person roof-top tent, camping gear, two jerry cans, water storage, a 12 volt car refrigerator, emergency recovery gear, sand trax, an extra water pump, tire repair kit and a myriad of other miscellaneous items.   This was the first full test-run of the rig.  It worked beautifully!  Everything has its place and there is a place for everything….even Fig (who won’t be going with us – she will be staying with Colburn’s sister and her family and their dog).

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    I joined the family in late August when I finished my contract at UNR, just in time to deliver Olaf to New Jersey so that he could be loaded into a 20 foot shipping container and sent to South Africa.  Shipping your vehicle internationally is an adventure in itself.  After months of research and planning, we still were unclear how the process would work but figured that it would all become clear as the steps unfolded.  Unfortunately, it did not.  As I was confirming the details of our shipment, the shipper moved up the date we had to deliver the truck for loading while simultaneously moving back the date the truck would arrive in Durban by a week.  This necessitated a complete reshuffling of our schedule and an additional two weeks of car rental, essentially upping the cost of shipping by one-third.  Unhappy but with few options for changing, we were stuck driving from upstate New York to New Jersey on a Monday morning to deliver Olaf to his container.

    With only a street address to go by, we arrived at what looks like an abandoned warehouse in the dark heart of Meadowlands.  As we drive in, there are quite literally hundreds of mostly-but-not-fully wrecked cars lining the street and packed in to the yard; weeds are growing up in between the cars and overtaking not only the ground but the sidewalks and paths as well; the building itself has broken windows and sparse, dirty, dilapidated signage.  We have to dodge a fork lift moving a bent Land Rover from one area to another.  A semi truck is jack-knifed, blocking our path, as it attempts to back in to tiny opening between the broken down vehicles.  It looked and felt very much like something straight out of the beginning of a Sopranos episode.

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    We eventually find our loading agency on the backside of the warehouse.  The only indication that this is the correct location is a faded piece of paper taped in the doorway stating Prestige Shipping.  Entering the building, a man with a strong Russian accent curtly says, “I will get Dimitri for you” before we have had a chance to say a word.  He magically knew why we were there and to whom we should speak.  This was very odd to me because the person I had been corresponding with was named Rubin, but goes by the nick-name “Muscles”.  Dimitri has never been part of the equation.  We sit down at a cramped desk surrounded by various sports memorabilia from professional teams – an Eli Manning signed football, a large print of Magic Johnson and Michael Jordan playing against each other, also signed by both athletes, a signed hockey jersey, and several other smaller items.  Another man, also with a thick Russian accent, demands our paper work.  We hand him the original title for the truck, our Carnet (essentially a passport and bond for the truck which acts as a temporary import permit to avoid luxury taxes in each country), and certified copies of our passports.  He makes copies and hands us back all of our original documents except for the truck title, which he keeps.   We only get a blurry black and white photocopy.  When we ask for the title back, he states “this is needed to clear customs”.  This does not feel right, but we are willing to go with it until we get more information.

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    Finally Dimitri arrives. Also speaking with a noticeable Russian accent but less so than his colleagues, Dimitri briefly reviews our information, asks for the keys and tells us we can be on our way.   At this point, we don’t know anyone’s last name or have any indication that they  have any connection to the company I have been working with as it is a totally different company.  There is no receipt, no review of the condition of the truck or terms of loading, no review of the manifest of the contents of the truck, no explanation of how or when the truck will be loaded, no indication of when or how we will get our title back.  It is beginning to feel surreal – as if we are being set up for a great con. Our truck and all of its contents was suddenly out of our control with only a blurry black and white photocopy of our title as evidence of its existence and our ownership.  We are not happy about this but really don’t know what else to do.  Getting in to our rental Buick, we look at each other and a wave of concern overcomes us.  Fighting the urge to want to control everything, we calmly drive away knowing from our previous travels that things usually work out, even if you are uncertain at the time.

    As we exit the yard, there is a heaviness wondering if we have somehow been duped or too trusting this time.  Silence envelops us as we each quietly ruminate on our potential error.  Finally, Colburn and I look at each other and ask, “It’s going to be ok, isn’t it?”  We decide that whatever happens, it is now out of our control so we will simply deal with any error that we have made.  The six hour drive is quiet and tense with the unease of our decision to trust the unknown.  Three days later, we receive a full bill of lading, confirmation photos which document the condition of the truck when we dropped it off, and acknowledgement that the truck has cleared customs.  Our hearts are lifted and stress-level greatly reduced.  Our trust in the goodness of people has once again been strengthened.  With Olaf comfortably settled in his new shipping container, we were able to enjoy the remainder of our time with family.

     

  • A New Chapter, A New Adventure 

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    It was wonderful to be with family again.

    It’s been two years since we returned to the US and posted about our adventures. We settled back in to our old life – our old house, the kids at their old school, my old work – and yet everything was different, not in a tangible way, but more like a rub in your shoe that you can only feel after many miles.  It was a subtle but constant irritation.  A whole year passed waiting for the feeling to either be identified or subside.  Then, while on spring break in Moab last year, we sat together as a family in our trailer, completely comfortable for the first time since we returned. There was a sense of peace that had been eluding us for many months.   As we discussed our situation, we realized that as odd as it may seem, the settled life had been making us feel unsettled.  Each of us was yearning for something different than the supposedly comfortable routine in to which we had slipped.

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    This was the experience which made us decide to hit the road again.

    As we discussed our options, it became clear that although we missed traveling immensely, we did not want to repeat the sustained break-neck pace we endured last time.  Thirty nine countries in two years required far too many transitions – different languages, different cultures, different expectations.  Mac commented that he would like to be able to spend more time in the communities we had only visited before, helping out if we could.   Lucia wanted to spend longer in each place so we could know more about the entire area rather than only seeing the highlights.   Colburn and I wanted to be able to use our professional skills yet not be tied down to a 50-week-a-year job.

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    Enjoying time camping in the woods

    While the plan was not fully solidified that week, we came home with a commitment to doing what was need to go traveling again.  Within a month of making the decision, we  sold the big house that required near constant attention and care and moved in to one that can be left with only the turn of a key.  We have spent the entire past year down-sizing our life – selling our beloved Sylvia, the trailer in which had been our home for two cross-country trips and in which we made the decision to go loose again.  We traded our gigantic Toyota Sequoia for a used Tacoma truck that can be fixed anywhere in the world.  We sold our rental home so that we won’t have to deal with a home as old as me either.  We found new homes for our martial arts floor pads, a fancy but very large desk-top computer, used single mattresses we no longer need and a myriad of other things that were weighing us down – both literally and figuratively.  We have spent the entire past year extracting ouselves from under what Lucia called our ‘big life’ and the burden of too many things and too many demands.

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    Testing out our rig with Aiana (our Kyrgyz exchange student) in California

    Now that we are living smaller life, what is the plan?  We have decided that we really didn’t get to see nearly enough of Africa so are heading back there as our first destination.  We will ship our truck so that we will have a home on the road as well as the flexibility of going where we want.  The general plan is to drive from Dar es Salaam Tanzania to Tofo Beach, Mozambique then on to Cape Town South Africa – about 11,000km or so in total.

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    Colburn has been cultivating a relationship with Level-Up Village, an educational company that connects schools in the U.S. and U.K. to international partners so that students can work collaboratively (through internet-based interactions) on STEM projects with their peers abroad.  He will be mentoring the global partner faculty as they learn to navigate the systems and technology.  I have found several options for being a visiting professor or volunteer teacher at nursing schools in Uganda and elsewhere.  Since will be doing a combination of road-schooling and online classes for the kids, we would like for them to have active volunteer opportunities as well.  To this end, we have made a connection with Underwater Africa, a marine megafauna conservation and research program in Mozambique which will allow the kids have an active role in one of their ongoing projects.  Local Oceans Trust in Kenya has a turtle conservation program which has also agreed to have the kids be part of their program.  We will see what else can happen as we finalize our plans, but for now we are excited to be actively planning again.  There is a big map of Africa on our wall with post-it notes indicating places where we want to go.  We are updating passports, gathering necessary documents, getting vaccines boosted, developing a medical kit, terminating cell phone contracts, buying international sim cards, figuring out how to renew the truck registration when we are a half a world away, and settling a myriad of other details.

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    The most difficult part will be leaving Fig, our Aussie, who lost an eye in an accident in March.

    So, that is our plan.  We will once again be on the road for an undetermined amount of time.  We anticipate for being gone for least the the next 9 to 12 months but then will come back to the U.S. for an extended period to regroup and decide on future locales.  Circumnavigating Australia and New Zealand for the following year is a definite possibility as is an overland drive from the United Kingdom through Central Asia to China or a North-through-South America jaunt.

  • The Unknown

    The view from our last hut
    The view from our last hut

    As I stood at the sink of the hut doing the breakfast dishes on our last day of trekking, I asked the woman standing next to me, a Danish mother of an 8 month old baby, what their plans were for the day.  Expecting to hear, “heading out”, “going to see the lake” or something similarly safe, I was moderately surprised when she replied, “Heading to MacKenzie”, a trekking hut some 12 kilometers over a moderately steep alpine pass away.  We had done the walk the day before and enjoyed it tremendously, but it is the middle day of a 3-4 day high alpine trek in New Zealand — not something you expect to be done with a young child.  Initially I was taken slightly aback by the response, but as I considered it further, I said, “Wow, I really admire you!” To be honest, we love adventure, but I don’t think it would have ever even crossed our minds to take our infant on a multi-day hike where you have to sleep in dorms of 25-28 beds.  We were challenged by car camping trips to Yosemite and Lake Tahoe, so I was impressed by the courage and confidence that these young parents showed.

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    The Harris Saddle to Lake Mackenzie

    But, they weren’t doing this walk on a whim or as a spur of the moment decision.  They had thought about the challenges of taking an infant trekking and came to the conclusion that they could handle any situation that might come up.  The walk they chose is on a very well maintained route (at least half of which is a meter wide gravel bridle path) with only intermittent rocky or steep areas.  The facilities are exceptional with cosy warm huts every evening, running water that can be consumed without treatment, and flush toilets.  They planned their trip so that the first night was only a half-day hike away from the car so should the situation be too challenging for them or their baby, Elena, they could easily descend.  They had been ready to abort the trip because the weather was quite unsettled for a few days before they began walking, but it had cleared and was predicted to be beautiful for their three nights/four days.  They had planned that each evening her partner would make an announcement during the hut talk that although their daughter is normally a good sleeper, they had extra ear plugs for the other people in the bunk room with them in case this was one of her off-nights.  The night we were with them, someone in the corner of the room commented that they wished that the people who snored would have been so thoughtful!  Everyone in the hut seemed quite content to have such a young hiker amongst them and appreciated the thoughtfulness of the parents.  Elena spent the evening being adored by young and old alike.

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    Ascending from Lake Mackenzie

    As our conversation about doing things with children continued, a Polish father hiking with several kids and also doing breakfast dishes with us, joined in commenting that he felt many people can only see a myriad of reasons why they should not do something rather than the few but compelling reasons why the should do something.  Together we pondered why we were all in New Zealand, a half-a-world away from our respective home countries, trekking with our children, when there are so many reasons why we shouldn’t be on such an adventure.  The line of questioning goes something like this:  what will we do if someone gets sick?  what if the baby gets fussy?  how will we make sure the kids aren’t behind in school when they get back?  etc.  There are an awful lot of reasons why we shouldn’t be there.  But, in the end, there is really only one good reason to do something out of the ordinary — because you really want to do it, and for some people that is enough of a reason to actually do it. For each of us standing at the line of sinks that morning, none of our trips would never have happened if we let all of the reasons why we shouldn’t  do it rule our decision, yet we were all there.  What is different about us?  Why did we choose to do something which has so many reasons not to?

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    Lake Mackenzie

    I believe that it comes down to a tolerance for the unknown.  At home our lives are largely predictable and there is great comfort in that routine.  We know what our daily schedule is — kids to school by 8:30 and us to work by 9:00, a full day at work then pick up the kids for after-school activities, make dinner, get any home chores done, and be in bed by 10:30.  We have our favorite markets for groceries but also know where to go for a back-up, we have our favorite coffee shops in several different parts of town depending on where we are and can drive home without worrying about which exit to take because we go there out of habit rather than conscious thought.  If our kid gets sick, we know we can call our primary care provider for a same-day appointment or go to an urgent care.  When our kids were babies, if they were fussy, we had an armory of resources to calm them and a pile of things to distract them.  But when you step outside of this norm through travel, everything is unknown — how to navigate in a different culture, what to do with your days, how will to find your way through foreign lands where you may or may not be able to read the signs, where to find food to eat, what you will do if someone gets sick, what to do if the weather is horrible, etc. — and you have to be okay with not knowing because the list goes on and on.  As you enter the unknown and live there for awhile, a sense of accomplishment and confidence flourishes – both as individuals and as a family.

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    Howden Hut Games

    With travel you learn that things will happen, but you will be able to figure out how to handle them.  You will experience the kindness of strangers for the overwhelming majority of people in this world are incredibly nice and will go to great lengths to help out a foreigner.   You will also find that there are a great deal more similarities in people than differences. If you let the unknown of what you will do if the baby gets fussy in the dormitories rule your decision, you may never experience her becoming the loving center of 48 people’s lives for one evening.  If you let the unknown of what you will do if someone gets sick when they are trekking, you may never watch young men at a Tibetan monastery blowing their shells and banging on their drums as they learn the meditation chants.  If you let the fear of what will happen if you get lost driving your own car through Africa, you will never share peaches with three generations of a family of wood-carvers along the side of the road.

    The notice board keeps you informed
    The notice board keeps you informed

    It is only through a tolerance of the unknown that some experiences can happen, but this is not a process one can enter blindly trusting that everything will be fine without forethought.  We, in fact, spend a great deal of time planning and evaluating our options, considering what we would do should certain situations occur. We have taken reasonable precautions to handle the foreseeable obstacles.  What will we do if someone gets sick?  We have an armory of medicines and a nurse practitioner on staff.  If she can’t handle the situation, we have an insurance policy which will help us locate English speaking providers in every country.  So far we have only had a broken toe, one case of pneumonia, a round of strep throat, a few bouts of travelers diarrhea, and two chipped teeth — all of which have been handled without any trips to a hospital and only two visits to local dentists.  What will we do if we get lost? Each of us wear a wrist band with our contact and medical information engraved on it and have a satellite phone for emergencies.

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    High on the Routeburn

    What will we do if the area could be dangerous because of weather or political strife?  In areas where weather can have a severe impact on the experience or safety, we plan accordingly.  We wanted to go to Madagascar in March, but it is the middle of the rainy season and roads can be dangerous. It’s just not worth the risk. When we were in Nepal, a freak storm dumped snow on the route we were supposed to trek so we headed to a different area.  Our  seven day Greenstone-Routeburn trek was condensed to four because there was a major low pressure system that would have made it difficult to enjoy hiking and possibly dangerous.  Because we could change it, we did. Although everything would probably be just fine, visiting Egypt and Ethiopia are currently off the table for this round because the political situation seems too uncertain for our comfort but other areas such as Turkey, Israel and Jordan are still being considered.  We are constantly reviewing our options and making sure that blind adventure does not over-rule common sense and that we draw on multiple sources of valid information to base our decisions.  We have learned that we can handle the unknowns.

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    Sunny days

    One of the byproducts of a global family journey are a vast and rich wealth of stories — stories we share with each other, with family, with friends, and with other parents who wonder whether they should (or could) do something like this.  These stories are born from the adventures and have become the fabric of our vital and colorful family circus.  We have each benefitted from adventures experienced during childhood and are privileged to have had consistent and loving families our whole lives.  Early on, both of us, on opposite coasts, developed a passion for adventure.  It is the reason we found each other, working as outdoor educators taking kids on trips outside. Seeing the other families from around the world in the track hut in New Zealand, sharing stories about when things did not go as planned, triggers a moment to stop as a family and ask the question, “What other adventures are out there?” because new experiences are a wonderful facet to any family’s life.  We are more open to enjoying them now because we know we can handle them.

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    Hiking was like walking through an elven forest

    And now, as we begin preparation for returning to the US, we find ourselves again facing another big unknown.  Where will we live?  We are not certain, but it will be near family on one coast or the other.  How will we handle being settled after such a grand adventure?  At this point, we are all desiring a more stable routine but also know that travel is part of our blood.  This means that the thing we are currently longing for will also be challenging. Will we go back to the same professions?  Maybe, maybe not.  Colburn is going back to the US in February for interviews because he has found a few options which seem to combine his love of leadership with a bit more adventure and creativity than he had previously. If something pops up that feels right, we will follow that opportunity.  If not, we are considering other opportunities which will allow us greater flexibility so that we can continue to explore while living a more settled life. Perhaps the hardest thing to face will be heading off to our respective days without each other: the kids to school and the parents to work.  Driving away from each other even though only for 8-10 hours, after these two years, will be heart-wrenching.  We don’t wish to hasten that day, however, it must come.  In just a few months, we will again step in to the unknown of life after a grand adventure.

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    A grand adventure together!

     

  • Too Much Stuff

    IMG_0016Oh my gosh – I am so relieved that we actually made it out of Reno. There were a few times over the last week that I didn’t actually think it would happen. But, in the end, preparations always take exactly as long as you have, so this was no exception. Literally, I was packing away the last boxes when the cleaners showed up and the house was only unoccupied for one night. After two weeks of packing and moving for the better part of every day, we decided that we have entirely too much stuff…and we have only lived in that house for two years! While it was stressful to have to deal with all of our “stuff”, it is also quite liberating to leave it all behind. At this point we have pared our life’s possessions down to one carry-on sized bag and one small daypack each. If we don’t have it, we will either have to live without it or buy it along the way.

    The day we left was also Lucia’s birthday and we didn’t want the chaos of departure to overwhelm her big day. Colburn purchased glow in the dark balloons, a fun birthday banner and a beautiful birthday cake so we would be able to make it at least a little special for her. We were camping the first night so Mac distracted Lucia with a little hike while we decorated the trailer with lights, balloons, and the banner. It was a lovely if subdued event. Celebrating birthdays may prove to be difficult on the road, but we are hoping it will be easier since we won’t be moving out of our home, trying to get all of our “stuff” where it needs to be, and knee-deep in final preparations when the next birthday comes around.

    Our first stop was with Deb’s brother (Rick) and sister-in-law (Laura) who just purchased a new hobby farm in California. It has been their life dream to have a piece of property like this so we are incredibly excited for them to embark on their journey to rural life and wanted to see it before we left. Serendipitously we dropped in on the first “Lowellpalooza” – a crazy weekend of kids, wine, swimming, and friends from their old neighborhood camping on their farm. There were probably 10 or 12 families dealing with the record breaking heat currently engulfing the West Coast. Although a bit overwhelming for us coming off of our craziness getting out of Reno, it was great to be able to share the event with them and to see them in a place that seems perfect.

    We also dropped off some of our most prized possessions (Moxie, the trailer and the truck) with the Lowell’s. We were all very sad to say goodbye to Moxie. We knew it would be difficult, but driving away from him was definitely the most difficult goodbye so far. With friends and family you can make arrangements to see them on the road or keep in touch through Skype and telephone calls. But, with a dog that greets you with a tail wag and request for a collar scratch every morning for the last nine years it is hard to reconcile not seeing him for a year or maybe even more. He has a gentle, knowing presence that grounds each of us when we are stressed. Stroking his soft curly fur is incredibly calming. We know that he will be loved and well-cared for, so it will be fine for him after the first few days. We are mourning our loss, not his.

    Today Colburn’s sister dropped us off at the airport and we are on the first of many flights as I write this. Although we were so “proud” to have fit all of our stuff in to a carry-on sized packs, just walking though the airport today made us realize that they are too heavy to be sustainable. We have too much stuff. Yes, it all fits, but the kids are falling backwards with the weight. Colburn and I looked like pack mules with the kids bags, our bags, and our daypacks walking down the aisle on the plane. When we get to Grandpa’s house, we are going to have to do some serious paring down of both weight and volume.

  • The “Official” Launch

    With a little over 2 weeks to go until we hit the road, one of my main priorities was to “officially” launch the blog.   The posts that I have done to date (only 4 of them) have been so that I could learn how to use the tools and to begin to think of ways to organize the content.  Now, with just a few more days to go, it’s time to get moving and go live!

    We’re in the home stretch of preparations now, tying up loose ends and finishing out to-do list.  Back at end of January I set a schedule with a task or two assigned to each week: update passport photos, get immunizations, rent houses, get notarized letters so that if something happened to Colburn and me, someone could take the kids back to the U.S…..yes, we’re a little paranoid but better safe than sorry.  But, the good news is that the vast majority of stuff has been done and we’re just getting the loose ends tied up.

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    As the academic year wrapped up for each of us, there have been a myriad of social events to attend.  At each event, I have found my self answering certain questions again and again from people who are curious as to how we have gone about organizing a year or two on the road.  Below are answers to some of the common questions.

    1. Where are you going?  That has yet to be determined.  We’re starting off visiting Colburn’s family on the East Coast then heading to Costa Rica and Nicaragua for a vacation.  Both countries have very well-developed infrastructure and are well trod tourist destinations.  While not a true ‘adventure’, after the past few years, we’re ready for fruity rum drinks on a beach!  After our Central American vacation we’re heading to Ecuador, Peru, Argentina, and a smidgen of Chile (Torres del Paine National Park).  We’re planning on meeting up with Colburn’s brother (Richard) and his family who live in Buenos Aires for both Thanksgiving and Christmas.  After that, we really don’t know.  We know we’ll be heading to southern Africa, but not sure where or for how long yet.  Realistically, we need to get on the road to see what life is like before we make any big decisions about the future.  The analogy that I use is that it is like planning a meal – if you are planning for the one big day, say Thanksgiving perhaps, you can put a lot of effort in to every little detail of the meal.  But there is no way you can do that for every day of the year without frying your circuits.  Some days you have to go to the pantry and ask, “Well, what do we have?  Mac and cheese with hot dogs, great!”  Planning for an extended trip is much like that.  If you only are going to be gone for a week, or even a month, you can plan every aspect of that trip.  However, when you’re gone for a year or more, you just have to take it as it comes.
    1. Are you booking a lot of tours?  No, for the vast majority of situations we prefer to make our own itinerary.  I am an obsessive researcher, so I scour the internet for ideas.  It is very easy to arrange with the internet.
    2. How are you getting from place to place?  For us, it is a mixture of planes, trains, automobiles, busses, boats, jeeps, donkeys, yaks, camels, etc.  No, we’re not sailing around the world (although Colburn did talk about it once – but I was not in favor of the idea since neither he nor I are really sailors – seemed like a bit too much of  a risk).  We’re taking more than a few flights, but also planning on a fair bit of ‘over-landing’ since we have the time.
    3. Where are you going to stay every night, in hotels?  No, I don’t think I would do a trip like this if I knew I had to sleep in a hotel every night.  I hate hotels.  For me, personally, hotels are often the most stressful part of travel – I don’t sleep well in them, I get creeped out by what I can’t see but might be on the bedspread, and basically feel like an automaton when I am in one.  I try to avoid them whenever possible.

      With the wonders of the internet, you can find awesome flats, houses, rooms, villas, and heaps of other amazing accommodation that costs a fraction of what a generic hotel would cost.  Sites like VRBO.com, Airbnb.com, FlipKey.com, etc. have literally thousands of international rentals.  When we went to Turkey a couple years ago, we found a great flat for 8 people with a balcony overlooking the Bosphorus and it cost about the same price as one nice hotel room.  The additional benefits of renting an apartment/house/villa are that you can have your own food so don’t have to eat out unless you want to, you are living in a neighborhood instead of a tourist compound, and you have a great deal more space.  We’ve rented several times from these sites and have never been disappointed.  We will keep you posted on those that were awesome and those that weren’t.

    4. What about the kids education?  Are you just going to hold them back for the year?  This one cracks me up.  Since both parents are educators, it’s not something that could have easily “slipped our mind” — imagine us, two teachers, 3 months in to the trip when we dope-slap our foreheads saying, “Crap, what about the kids education?  We forgot to do something about that!”  We are  much too neurotic about education to not have a plan.

      The real answer is that we are going to be officially home schooling the kids while we’re on the road.  In fact, Colburn titled his blog “Road School” (you can find the link on the bottom of this page) and we have authorization to do so from the State of Nevada (surprisingly easy to get – all you have to do is tell them that your child will “progress from where they are right now” and provide a list of either types of materials or subjects to be covered – really kind of shocked me that there is assessment or evidence of learning needed at all).  From reading the blogs of other families who have done this, most folks say that they only had difficulty keeping up on math – everything else is easily worked in to the fabric of the trip.  So, what we have decided is that we’ll do 30 minutes of dedicated math plus 30 minutes of directed study (grammar, specific writing exercises, history, etc.) every day.  Sounds like a good plan, we’ll see how it goes.

    5. Isn’t it really really expensive to travel for that long?  Well, that depends on what you mean by “really” expensive.  We don’t know for sure yet, but the thing that many people forget is all of the usual expenses of living at home that we won’t have while we’re abroad.  For example, we will not have a cable bill, car insurance, or propane bill until we return.  Health and evacuation insurance for the whole family was  $2,400 for the whole year, not $350 per person per month.  Another aspect that many people do not realize is that when you slow down, the price can actually be cheaper.  Instead of spending $200 for flying between cities, you can take a bus for $25 because you can spare the 8 hours it will take.  Similarly, we were considering a Galapagos cruise which cost $2800 per person for 8 days.  Yes, it would be a total budget-buster, but hey, after all, it is the Galapagos!  Then I realized that you can rent an apartment or a house for less than $100 per night on 3 of the 4 inhabited islands.  So this means that we can be in the Galapagos for a 28 days for the price it would have cost us for 1 person on an 8 day cruise.  Getting from place to place is expensive, once you’re there it is relatively “cheap”.   We’re going to try to balance the expensive with the frugal.

    These are just some of the common questions.  If you have any other ones, please feel free to post them and I will do my best to answer!  The journey begins in just a couple weeks!

  • The First Good Bye

    The First Good Bye

    DSC_0033 Last weekend we said our first good bye – and it was much more emotional to than I would have expected.  Ever since our mom died a few years ago, my sister and I have arranged to enjoy some family camping time on the Sonoma Coast at least twice each year.  Typically we meet for Thanksgiving and Mother’s Day, but this year we had to alter our plans as Auntie Mar (the ultimate kid-magnet) and Uncle Roland (a close second for ultimate kid-magnet) are heading north to Alaska for the summer!  As a newly retired couple, they are enjoying the freedoms of no work and no schedule by revisiting where they went on their honeymoon, but for a bit longer this time.  Since they won’t be around when we leave in July, we wanted to make sure we had one last “hurrah” before they left.  And, while we are incredibly excited to hear of their adventures as they adjust to retired life on the road, we are also incredibly sad to know that this was the last time we may see them for a year or two.  Our cousin, Beth, was able to join us as it was likely the last time we see her too.  In some ways it was a turning of the tables as soon we will be the ones leaving on a grand adventure, but for now we are the ones left behind.  While we had an awesome weekend, it was somewhat melancholy to have to say goodbye….especially with so much work left for us to do.

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    The weekend was a glorious April weekend along the California coast.  The place we usually go camping is north of San Francisco near Bodega Bay.  We wanted to try someplace new this time, so headed a bit further (it ended up being MUCH further) up the coast.  The weather was typical for CA at this time of the year – overcast to begin but then the clouds broke on Saturday afternoon and we were able to enjoy the “sunny but cool” CA weather that makes for wonderful camping.  As we drove through Bodega Bay on our way to our campsite, we saw signs for a “Fisherman’s Festival” on Saturday so, of course, had to go see what is involved in a “Fisherman’s Festival”.  While the festival was a little less than overly exciting, there was a wooden boat building and racing competition that provided a fair bit of amusement and lots of craft booths to peruse.  The concept is actually pretty cool – teams of contestants get 2 hours to build a wooden boat from scratch then race it around a short course to see whose boat is most sea-worthy.  Watching the building was fun but we weren’t able to stay long enough to see the actual “race”.

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    Probably the most “exciting” thing that happened from my perspective was that while we were wandering through the stalls, I saw a guy that looked a lot like one of my old river guide buddies … and it ends up that it was one!  It was fun to catch up with someone who I haven’t seen in nearly 20 years – he still looks the same so was easy to recognize – and to see how life progresses from being carefree 20-somethings to a settled, professional life that includes parenthood.  Lucia started asking all sorts of questions about how I knew this guy, what I did when I was a river guide (only some stories are appropriate for a 10 year old), how being a parent is different than being a river guide (totally honey…isn’t that an interesting bird over there?), etc. and, of course, we had to eat our fill of oysters and calamari so I was able to distract her from querying me more about my life back then.  Score another one for distraction!

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    When we got home Sunday evening, Lu, Colburn and I sat in the bedroom and talked of our “first good byes” and how change can make us more than a little sad.  It’s a good lesson to learn, especially since we will soon be on the leaving side of the equation.  Beth, my cousin, said, “You know, it’s always easier on the ones leaving than the ones staying behind.”  This was our weekend to learn that lesson.

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  • Wounded – intentionally

    photo-1To give you an idea of my penchant for procrastination, I have had a pretty painful foot for a couple years now, but waited until 12 weeks before we leave to have it fixed. Crazy, right? Now, it might now be as bad as it sounds – I actually have a reason for waiting. Here’s the story – I saw the surgeon in November and we thought about doing it then, but it would have meant missing the majority of the ski season. Because we’ve been having such fun skiing with the kids lately, I didn’t want to do that. So, I had to balance a decent ski season with enough time to be able to handle any recovery issues before we leave. Given that our departure date is 1 July 2013, I wanted at least 12 weeks recovery – so surgery was March 25.

    All in all, it is going as planned, but not as I had expected. When I had a similar procedure done 15 years ago, I was in a short leg cast for 6 weeks and on crutches the whole time. Luckily, things have progressed since that time. The surgeon said that I’d be able to heel walk in a boot (and ditch the crutches) as soon as I was comfortable doing so. In my mind, this would be a few days to maybe a week or so post-op. I’ve always rebounded pretty quickly from surgery and really thought this would be similar. Whoa, was I wrong! My little piggy is tired and sore! Not really pain, but rather an intense itching, stretching, pulling kind of sensation. The only place I am truly comfortable is lying in bed with my foot up and an icepack on it. When I had my back fixed, after the first 24 hours, I only needed to take pain pills every once in a while – like 2 or 3 in my whole 8 week recovery. This, in contrast, still needs consistent medication even 10 days later! But, I guess part of it is aging too – I’m a few years older than when my back was done and it was a relief to get it taken care of – this is different because it only hurt when I walked.

    C and the kids have been awesome – waiting on me hand and foot, coming in to bed for our morning snuggles, and making sure everyone is “calm” when my foot is out of the boot. I couldn’t ask for a more loving or caring family. Yet, being wounded is a lesson in humility – I can’t shower on my own, need to have someone bring in my plate of dinner, and retrieve my morning coffee for me. Today was the first day I drove – and had a little sense of giddiness as I was able to take the kids to school. Really, it is the simple things that are most difficult. I haven’t been able to help make dinner, clean up, do laundry, pick up the kids from school, etc. and feel so helpless. These are the foundations of my daily activities and all I can do now is aimlessly wander the internet.

    The benefit of my aimless wandering on the internet is that we are going to the Galapagos!

    Going to the Galapagos is a lifetime dream of mine – other than perhaps safari in Africa, I can’t think of another place that I have always wanted to visit. Initially we were considering doing a boat tour, but these are very pricey ($2,000-5,000 per person!) and we have a daughter who is very prone to motion illness – making it less-than-optimal. We decided to pull the trigger and were almost ready to book, when I came across an article which suggested, “why not spend a whole month if you have the time?”. Well, guess what, time is what we have! So, with a little poking around we were able to secure a 2 bedroom flat on the main island for substantially less than what it would have cost for even one of us to do the cheapest boat tour! We will do some day tours and short hops to the other islands from our home base, but will spend more time getting to know the ecosystems, ecology and issues rather than cruising from island to island and spending less than a half day in each location. We are all VERY excited – a month on the Galapagos – pinch me!

  • Getting Ready – 17 weeks and counting

    PeruWeaverThe intensity of preparations has been ramping up over the past few weeks. Being the ever-prepared “Plannie McPlanerson” (a name, by the way, that we have hijacked from a family from Colorado who did a similar trip a few years ago – she liked to plan too!) that I am, I set out a schedule of things we needed to accomplish before we left – rent houses, get visas, get school books, etc. – as weekly assignments so that we won’t get overloaded in the last few weeks. As two former outdoor educators, we strongly believe in the old adage, “prior planning prevents piss-poor performance”. The unintended drawback to this idea was that I allowed too much time to get things done. For example, India offers a multiple entry visa good for 180 days over the next 10 years so I put that as one of the first things on my list. To complete the application, we need 2 passport-sized pictures for each of us.  While this is not hard to do – it only involves having an off-white background on which to shoot the picture – I’ve been busy with work so now it’s 6 weeks later and I still haven’t taken the pictures because I have “so much time” left before we go.  Perhaps the reality is that everything really will happen in the last month or two because that is just the reality of preparation – you don’t actually do anything until it absolutely must be done.

    This is not to say that we are total procrastinators as Colburn tested two different packing systems (regular backpack or convertible soft-sided) with the kids during trips to visit his parents. We have decided to go with the convertible ones because there are fewer straps, handles, and various other “dingle-berries” to get caught up. They are also front-loading instead of top-loading is a key factor – you can actually see all of your stuff when you open the soft-sided ones. So – check – at least one thing has been checked off the list!

    The other major accomplishment to date has been coming to the realization of just how much there is to see and do in this world! In talking about what our priorities were for this trip, Colburn and I have realized that we really are gluttons for adventure. We sort of knew it before, but our life has become so settled and “ordinary” over the past few years that we almost forgot about it. We are also very lucky that even the kids are excited for new adventures….what do you think of a camel safari in Morocco? Cool! How about hiking 2 days up hill just to see some Inca ruins? Sure! Every time I bring up a new place or activity, our family tends to respond the same, “Wow, that would be cool! Let’s do it!” You’ve really gotta love a 7-year old who says that to a 6-day train trip across Russia and Mongolia or a 9-year old who is willing to brave the tarantulas in the Amazon just to see pink river dolphins!  The other aspect of this realization is that our trip may take longer than the one-year we had originally planned.  We will leave it open to see what feels right once we actually get on the road.

    We are also setting up our first volunteer experience. If all goes well, we will be doing a service-travel program with Awamaki – a group in the Sacred Valley of Peru (near Cuzco) which works on community development and women’s empowerment. Although we don’t know what our actual role will be quite yet, we are looking at teaching English for Colburn and the kids and possibly doing some healthcare for Deb. If you want to check out what they do, they are at Awamaki

  • Getting Ready – The First Days

    DSC_0137Well, the holidays have come and gone and we are now 5 months from our departure date.  We had put off moving on any actual preparations for our trip until after the New Year, so now it is time to really begin getting ready.  There are passports to be updated, visas to be procured, immunizations to be administered, houses to rent, gear to be purchased, school-work to be organized, and a myriad of other little details to be handled – all while working full time and trying to maintain some semblance of normalcy.  While this is all very exciting, there is an aspect which is still  very unreal…..it’s been something we have talked about for the better part of a year, but now it is time to put our plans in to action.  Going grocery shopping or skiing on an amazing winter day is much more tangible and consistent with our previous life that it is difficult to believe that we are really ditching all of this to head out around the world.

    The upside of changing from what we will do to what we are doing is that we are all very excited – Lucia has started her own blog (travelingperfume.wordpress.com – the first post will be ready soon), Mac is choosing which Legos to bring with him and Colburn and I are finally getting to do all of the things we have been talking about doing.  It is very difficult to decide on a route, what to bring, etc. but what we have realized is that you can’t prepare for every situation.  We will plan for an average situation then adjust accordingly as we go.  Part of the beauty of extended travel is that you get to adjust to where you are and what you are doing.  We are hoping to limit our baggage to “carry on only”….which all sounds well and fine until you try to cram school supplies, iPads, first aid kit, cameras, emergency barf bags (a necessity in this family), etc. in too.  If it was just clothes and shoes, we’d be fine, but it is all the other stuff that we feel we must take with us that makes it a bit tight.

    Many people have asked what our route will be – while we cannot say what will actually happen once we are on the road (or even how things will change between now and then), our current plan is  rough idea based on region.  Obviously we cannot see everything in a year, so we will take a selection from the following areas/regions:

    Asia: Japan, China, Nepal, Bhutan, India (mostly northern), and a few places in SEA (Indonesia, Thailand, ????)

    Australia and New Zealand (if time permits)

    Africa: South Africa, Namibia, Tanzania, and Morocco.

    Middle East: Turkey, Jordan, Israel, Egypt, Lebanon (all depending on what the political situation is at the time)

    Europe:  Italy, Holland, and who knows where else.

    South and Central America: Argentina and Peru with “maybe” for Chile, Bolivia, Ecuador, or Costa Rica.